Tips For Choosing Your Child’s First Name – Being Parents

Choosing a baby’s name is one of the most important decisions parents face. The first name is an integral part of the identity. We will cover the subject in more detail below.

The arrival of a child into the world undoubtedly brings about a great number of changes. It is necessary to arrange the space, to reorganize the schedules, the agendas and the priorities.

This involves looking after health  (at all levels). It also comes with some crucial decisions, like choosing the name of that new person who will be born.

How to choose your child’s first name

There are many considerations to take into account. There are cultural aspects which exert a considerable influence (religion, country, etc.). The family tradition is also involved. All of these factors should always be aimed at the well-being of the baby.

1. It must be a couple decision

   The first name chosen – whatever it is – must be the product of the parents’ agreement. It is thus one of the first agreements that parents will have to reach. It’s a good time to let go of the haste and whims and contemplate options that may appeal to both.

   If one of the two does not like the first name chosen, it is better to drop it. There are endless options. One of them will be the consensus in both. To satisfy both parents, there is the option of the middle name.

2. It takes time

   Be sure to put in the time you need, and during pregnancy, parents may feel the pressure to choose. Parents should not pay attention to their environment and  know how to take the time necessary  to choose the first name of a child.

3. Inquire

   It is necessary to be well informed on the subject. Indeed, some first names can have strong cultural references. A first name that parents like could be a literary figure, a famous politician, or an important figure in history.

   Obviously, we can also rely on online sources for orientation. However, if we compare two or more sites, the information can become contradictory.

4. Avoid stiffness

   It is not recommended to adopt a rigid posture at this time. “It must be the grandfather’s first name and period”,  is not really a strong argument. It is not favorable for the baby.

   If the two parents do not agree on a first name, it is necessary to seek the solution together  until a compromise is reached. It is recommended that all first names be considered as options rather than final sentences.

   

5. Be careful with the initials!

   Sometimes we choose one or two first names that can cause a problem. The person’s initials will still be needed at some point and the  wrong combination can lead to problems.

   That is why parents are advised to choose it with caution so that it can be combined with the name. It is necessary to avoid the initials which, together, can form a word which can be the reason for mockery.

6. Timeless names

   We sometimes choose a first name according to the trend of the moment. It may turn out to be “empty”  over time, devoid of meaning and originality. It can be detrimental to the person’s development. The child may refuse his first name because he does not like it or because it sounds bad.

   There are classic and timeless names that do not lose their charm and do not harm the person as they grow. This is the case with Camille, Louise, Victor or Louis.

   There are others which may turn out to be more contemporary. For example, Madonna Shakira and other exuberant combinations. Cartoons also mark trends that are best analyzed before making the choice to name your child as a character.

A simple first name

Sometimes emotion plays bad tricks. Statistics show that 6% of parents regret their choice of first name. In some cases, it is for having chosen a common first name.

However, there are cases where regret is found in choosing a name that is difficult to pronounce. We recommend that you opt for a first name that is not too complicated and easy to pronounce.

A tribute

Sometimes love makes you want to give a name that serves as a tribute to another loved one. Much will depend on the stories of each family. Depending on the arguments and the circumstances, this will be more or less valid.

Choosing your child’s first name is  a big responsibility. Take your time to reach consensus. But above all, remember: you must not rush.