To Be The Mother Of A Daughter Is To Have A Lifelong Accomplice – To Be Parents

To be a  woman  is experienced as an immense privilege. Above all, the woman is ambivalent and always fights between states of mind and feelings. On the other hand,  being the mother of a daughter is a revealing, overwhelming and surprising experience that confronts us with a “new me”  that we carry within us and that we did not know existed.

Congratulations, it’s a girl!

You have a little girl in your arms who, from today, will rob you of your calm, deprive you of sleep, fill your life with tenderness, care and sensitivity.

This little being will become a girl who  already carries in her genes the capacity to love and hate with the same intensity, whether  she likes pink or not. It is now strong on a plane beyond the physical; his strength lies in his great ability to give and devote himself to others.

It will fill you with emotions to see your daughter laughing and crying almost at the same time. You will find her tender, affectionate, sentimental and flirtatious, without even knowing where she learned it from. One day you’ll find her rocking her teddy bear and the next day you’ll see her jumping through mud puddles and with her mouth full of melted chocolate.

Every day, you will discover a new facet of her personality in her. You will be surprised to know and observe that she looks more and more like you.

Someday, sooner than you think, she’ll want to be like you and wear your shoes, necklaces, and makeup. She will fall in love with her daddy, but her first example of a wife will be you. She’ll be pissed off when she sees you hugging and kissing her dad, but you’ll be her first friend, confidante, and refuge.

You will be amazed to know that the connection that exists between you and your daughter is so strong and so intimate. This complicity comes from this mutual understanding, knowing in advance how tragic, whimsical, intelligent and capricious women can become.

Putting words on the love you have for your daughter is difficult. Just thinking about it moves us and brings out tears. Being a mother of a daughter is a blessing. She becomes your best friend forever: we cannot escape it. In each of his actions, words or reactions, there is a part of us that cannot be denied. Buying your first pink dresses and clothes is a very moving memory.

What does it mean to be the mother of a daughter?

Here are some tips you can give to your accomplice:

• You can read a lot with her and choose stories where women play an important role,  so that she doesn’t think that there are opportunities in life that are out of reach.
• When something is on her mind, talk to her on the edge of her bed. She prefers face to face and closeness.
• If you notice that with her friends it’s always her who gives in, teach her that she has the right to express what she thinks. This is how she learns to assert her rights.

Knowing how girls tend to act and learn, what attitudes are often needed, encouraging her will help you understand your daughter better and educate her in the best possible way.

If you are  pregnant  and it is a girl, know that today you are becoming the mother of a new woman. However, if you are already the mother of a pretty princess, we want you to always find the right words to stroke her little girl’s heart, regardless of her age.

May she find in you the best ally whether it is to play dolls together, get Daddy’s permission, or have  coffee  and make the world a whole new place.

Never forget to set a good example for your daughter and it will depend on whether she is your lifelong accomplice.